A disciple of Jesus ought to be a certain kind of person, growing daily into the image of Christ. Jesus mentioned the virtues in the Sermon on the Mount, and the other New Testament writers developed them further in the epistles. Here are thirty Kingdom virtues. But there are many more as well. Perhaps you can mention others in the comment section.
Humility: The place of entire dependence upon God. “… all of you clothe yourselves in humility, for God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” 1 Peter 5:5
The opposite of humility is pride, which is independence from, and rebellion towards God. This, of course, was Satan’s sin, and the sin of Adam and Eve.
Innocence: The childlike condition of being blameless and pure. “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” Matthew 5:8
“Wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.” – Psalm 51:7
Of course none of us are innocent apart from the work of Jesus on our behalf. But what a beautiful gift to have our childlike innocence restored.
Honor: Recognizing and treating each person as a beloved image bearer of God. “Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.” – Romans 12:10
“Honor all people, love the brotherhood, fear God, honor the king.” 1 Peter 2:1
Excellence: Letting all that you do reflect your very best. “Whether you eat, or drink, or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” – 1 Corinthians 10:31
“O Lord, our Lord, how excellent is your name in all the earth!” Psalm 8:1
Gratitude: We ought to always remember that gratitude is not complete until it is expressed. When we say “Thank you”, it becomes real.
“In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:18
“What do you have that God hasn’t given you?” – 1 Corinthians. 4:7
Hospitality: The spirit of welcome originally displayed in God when He welcomed us into His life. In a sense, it is the doorway into the Kingdom.
“So reach out and welcome one another to God’s glory. Jesus did it; now you do it!” – Romans 15:7 (The Message)
Gentleness / Kindness: The generous extension of thoughtfulness, compassion and empathy towards others.
“Blessed are the gentle, for they shall inherit the earth.” – Matthew 5:5
“Let your gentle spirit be known to all men.” – Philippians 4:5
“Gentle” is the word Jesus used to describe his own heart: “I am meek and gentle of heart.” – (Matthew 11:29)
“In a world where you can be anything, be kind.”
Patience: The ability to endure difficult circumstances. “Love is patient.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4
“… be patient, bearing with one another in love.” – Ephesians 4:2
I suspect many of us struggle with patience because we have neglected the God-given call to plant gardens. Gardening produces patience. And difficult people too!
Wisdom: Seeing life from God’s perspective and understanding the consequences of our choices. “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him.” – James 1:5
“Sell everything and buy Wisdom! Forage for Understanding!Don’t forget one word! Don’t deviate an inch!Never walk away from Wisdom—she guards your life; love her—she keeps her eye on you.Above all and before all, do this: Get Wisdom! Write this at the top of your list: Get Understanding! Throw your arms around her—believe me, you won’t regret it; never let her go—she’ll make your life glorious.” Proverbs 4:5-9. (The Message)
Faith: “Faith is knowing God well enough to know what He wants to do in a given situation.” (Heidi Baker) “We live by faith, and not by sight.” 2 Corinthians 5:7
“…If you believe you will see the glory of God.” John 11:40
Generosity: Everything I have is merely on loan from God to be freely shared with others. ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.” – Jesus
“And when you give, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing!” – Also Jesus!
Mercy: “Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.” – Matthew 5:7
It is our call to be merciful while leaving all judgment to God. He alone carries that authority. While Believers ought to rightly condemn sin, we must never condemn the sinner. So much of our tarnished reputation would be rehabilitated if the church would return to mercy.
Self-control. “But the fruit of the Spirit is… self control.” – Galatians 5:22-23
Self-control will produce an ordered, disciplined life of love and beauty. Its opposite is debauchery.
Courage: Not the absence of fear, but the willingness to take action in spite of your fears. “This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” – Joshua 1:9
Compassion: To share in the sufferings of others. “Carry each other’s burdens”. Galatians 6:2
“Weep with those who weep…” Romans 12:15
Diligence / Industry: The opposite of laziness and sloth. “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward.” Colossians 2:23-24
“Diligent hands will rule, but laziness ends in forced labor.” Proverbs 12:24
Sacrifice “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” – John 15:13
The entire structure of the cosmos hangs upon the sacrifice of one Man.
Truth: An accurate description of reality. “If you hold to my teaching, you are my disciples indeed. Then you will know the truth, (reality), and the truth, (reality), will set you free.” – John 8:31
“They exchanged the truth of God for a lie… therefore God gave them over… to become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice… God-haters… arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil… they have no understanding, no fidelity, no love, no mercy.” – Romans 1:25-30
Peacemaking: Responding to conflict in the Spirit of Christ rather than offensiveness and judgment. “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God.” – Matthew 5:9
“Pursue peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord…” – Hebrews 12:14
Godliness: Reflecting the character and beauty of Jesus. “… speaking the truth in love, we will grow in every way to be more and more like Christ…” – Ephesians 4:15
Godliness, really, is our purpose and goal.
Contentment: The opposite of covetousness. “But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. ” – 1 Timothy 6:6-8
Discontentment fuels unhappiness, depression, and stress.
See Luke 12:15-24 for Jesus’ winsome teaching about sparrows, lilies, and a fool who kept building bigger barns.
Justice: Impartially upholding what is just, fair, and right according to honor, morality, and law. “He has shown you, O man, what is good, and what the Lord requires of you: to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.” – Micah 6:8
“When justice is deferred it makes the heart sick, but “when justice is done, it brings joy to the righteous and terror to evildoers.” – Proverbs 21:15
The scriptures teach that God will ultimately judge every evil deed and right the scales of justice. Oh how we long for that day….
Forgiveness. Followers of Jesus do not hold onto bitterness. Full stop.
“Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.”
“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32
Grace: Recognizing the extravagant love and favor of God towards oneself, and freely extending it to others.
Followers of Jesus ought to be famous for this virtue, but too often we are known instead for our judgments.
Believing the best in people. “Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” – 1 Corinthians 13:7
Although we will sometimes be disappointed, it’s better to live in generous optimism towards others than to sink into bitter cynicism and judgment.
Endurance: The ability to stand up under times of suffering, hardship, trauma, and fatigue. It is closely tied to patience, joy, faith, and proven character.
“Brethren, consider it all joy when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect work in you, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” – James 1:2-4
Slow to anger, or “not being easily offended”. “A man’s discretion makes him slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook a transgression.” Proverbs 19:11
In a culture of offense where the slightest word or political opinion can trigger anger, this ought to set Believers apart like stars in the night sky.
Servanthood “The greatest among you will be your servant.” – Matthew 23:11
The mark of true greatness; Many of our greatest heroes are those who have cheerfully and sacrificially served others. This is such a beautiful rebuke to a world which idolizes looks, money, stardom, and talent.
Encouragement: to speak strength and courage into others. “… let us encourage one another all the more, since you see that the Day of the Lord is coming nearer.” Hebrews 10:25
As we observe the events around us we need to remind each other that the King is on the move, and will soon be among us!
Love: To seek the highest good of others.
Love beats “tolerance” by millions upon millions of miles.
“Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” – John 13:34-35